Communication in Relationships

How to Talk About Your Feelings Without Pushing Someone Away

Jun 02, 2025

Opening up emotionally can be scary, but it’s essential for building intimacy. Here’s how to communicate your feelings without overwhelming your partner:

  • Use “I” Statements – Say “I feel…” rather than “You make me feel…”

  • Pick the Right Time – Avoid bringing up serious topics during stressful or rushed moments.

  • Be Clear but Gentle – Honesty is important, but tone and delivery matter too.

  • Don’t Expect Mind Reading – Assume they don’t know how you feel unless you tell them.

  • Invite Dialogue – Encourage them to share how they feel too. Make it a two-way street.

 

Vulnerability takes courage, but it often leads to stronger connection.